Don’t call her a ho

Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. One plus one equals two. We understand this, but do not always apply this knowledge. It hurts my heart to pieces when I hear somebody call a girl a “ho.” Really, who aspires to be a ho (or hoe, whichever way you like to spell it)?

Did you ever ask yourself what made this girl act like this? Did you ever consider that maybe she was molested as a little girl by her step father but her mother never believed her. Did you know that she went by her boyfriend’s house to cry on his shoulder and he got her high to ease the pain, then let his friends train her. Do you know that she ran away and the only way she felt she could survive was by selling her body.

Do you know she tried to committ suicide but failed in her attempt. Disappointed she could not even kill herself, she decides to turn the tables and uses what other men have taken in the past for free and turned it into a moneymaker.

Because she could front so good, you never knew what she was going through, you just saw her staying out all night getting high. Not knowing she was on the pills and alcohol to numb the pain. Her pride would not allow her to tell anyone else because if her momma didn’t believe her, then who would? The policeman who did not take her in for prostitution for a quick blowjob? The counselor who couldn’t relate and tried to make her work it out with her family because they seemed loving? The so-called friends who she knew whispered about her behind her back? The teacher who keeps complaining she did not turn her homework in again today?

Yes, we do all have choices. And, sometimes we do somethings to make our situation worse; but, what would you have done? Don’t be too quick to give an answer if it did not happen to you. Some girls have turned to this lifestyle for fewer issues. Oh yeah fellas, that girl who you think is so easy and is not worth loving, did you know that she thought you were the one that might make her fairytale come true and love her unconditionally?

She has some hoish ways, but she is not a ho. She is hurt and misguided. She wants what every other “respectable” woman want. The fairytale.

Bottom Line: Be careful who you talk about. People need your help more than your hurtful words. Don’t judge the book by the cover. A lot of people display their internal problems through negative behaviors. Do not talk about people. Pray for them. Do you owe some people an apology? I did. I do some more.

Now, who you calling a hoe???
The BLAQUESMITH

~ by blaquesmith20 on July 22, 2008.